Speed-Date and Dial-a-Mate

This was so damn good I just had to copy it here. I wrote this on a thread a gentleman friend posted, putting a player on blast, and a female (married) tag chaser. My response below:

Men and women don't court anymore, they speed date. This is an instant gratification society where nobody has 'time' to invest in ONE person and get to know them before moving on because they know if they don't get what they want from that person there are half a dozen more behind them just waiting in line, all thinking the same thing, "I'm the lucky one who will change them, they will stick with ME" <- wrong. Self deluded behavior that only encourages men to think they can play around and play the field with women's affections. And don't even get me started on the games that women play. I know all too well.

The only difference is women are far more subtle and sly about it. (most) Guys only see the attention as flattering, but I'm here to tell you, Bitches know Bitches. We see the motive behind all the cutesie flirting, and there is no such thing as "harmless" flirting.

When women stop putting themselves up on the table like a booty buffet, men will learn they can't treat us as such. And when men learn how to slow down, get to know one person instead of diluting their attention and affection in multiple directions, and stop (for the love of pete) looking over someone's shoulder to see what other possibilities are there, then MAYBE we'll see a shift from speed dating to actual courtship again.