Let's get started, shall we? Here is one of the most recent tips I've shared across one popular social networking site, MyYearbook. Myyearbook has chatter posts (now called "Live Feed"), which is similar to Facebook's 'wall' where your friends can post comments to your threads, ask you questions. You also have the option to allow viewing publicly, or restrict it to your friends only.
There's a guy, we'll call him Scorpio. Scorpio likes to keep his image "mostly gentleman but always ready for the naughty side to be allowed." Really, that's all he waits for. He hints, he teases, makes vague comments in texts or private messages, even the rare phone call. However, Mr. Scorpio will try his best to 'sweetly' get into your bed on the 2nd time he meets you, at least.He will always have "forgot" his phone in his room or apartment, or the battery mysteriously dies every single weekend and it will be days before you hear from him saying "Baby I'm sorry my battery died and I can't find my charger."
(This tactic by the way is the "I'm a clueless man and virtually helpless so please don't be angry with me, I am trying so hard to be sincere"...It's quite effective, sadly.)
If you ask him a question on MyYearbook, he will answer once or twice and hint that he's into you, but then none of your questions will get answered afterward. He will call you 'Baby' and tell you how much he misses you, how much he can't wait to see you again. But woe unto the girl who foolishly posts something of the same on his Live Feed. Not only will he delete it, he will never speak to you again.
This is because he's afraid someone else (a particular someone else) will see it, and infer several possible things. That:
A) He's only looking for casual dating and booty calls. - This would ruin his plan with the girl he actually thinks is "acceptable dating material", so he won't want that image at all.
B) He's playing several girls at once and doesn't want any of them to discover they are only one plate on his booty-buffet. - Again, it would ruin his image in the eyes of the girl he wants on his arm in public..
or C) He's actually with someone already and is cheating on her with you and whomever else he can con into anal sex because he's not getting what he wants from his "girlfriend."
If you pay attention, you can recognize some signs. And you should pay attention, because if you notice any of these a smart girl will immediately get to snooping when stuff doesn't add up. He'll own more of one girl's photos than anyone else. She'll be his "#1 friend". She will actually live near enough to him to see every day.
Two weeks later, he's "in a relationship". ~Guffaws~ How sweet. This fool of a girl probably thinks he isn't going to cheat on her, and either doesn't realize he already HAS, or is deluding herself to believe him saying "Oh I swear baby there's NOTHING going on, that girl is crazy, tryin' to start drama!"
Ladies, if you talk to a guy, and he says he is completely into you, calls you 'Baby', yet deletes your comments from underneath his live feed, or his pictures, He is not being honest. Not with you, or not with someone else. Hell, probably not with either of you.
If you make a sincere, honest comment that you miss him, or can't wait to see him again (because YOU have nothing to hide), and he deletes it, it's because he's worried about someone else seeing it. Those are NOT the actions of an honest person. Cut him loose, quick!
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