Those young military studs

Here's the problem when it comes to these older, stressed out (and worn out) single moms who trot after the young military studs. You know, the Cougar, the 'Gate Bunnies', the Barracks whores, "Tag chasers", the list goes on.

She's a deluded single woman (or single parent) who will eventually get tired of him being the kid that he is. She wants a grown man who is also a buff fuck, but she'll be bitterly disappointed before long.  And he really is a kid, despite his apparent maturity from being in the military. Chances are he's also been around the block in the relationship department, because women literally throw themselves at him because of his uniform, or his body, or because of some overly romanticized ideal these women have built up in their heads about soldiers. They also somehow insert into their own heads this idea that because he's young, he's fresh, and not as cynical as older men who have either been divorced, or been hurt badly by their ex.

This ain't WWII sweetheart. Wise up, and do it quickly. This guy is one jaded mofo, because even if he hasn't been burned by a girl on his deployments, he's heard all the horror stories from his battle buddies who have. This has made him wary, and he's going to trust his battles before he trusts you. Don't delude yourself.

If by some chance you enter into an "exclusive" relationship with one of these guys, no matter how faithful he may seem to be while he's on deployment, once he hits home turf, his eye will be on every tight ass in sight. He's built up a ton of testosterone from months away from any available (and physically appealing) female, and he's going to want to let it loose..FAST. If you don't actually live in a town nearby, there isn't an ice cube's chance in Hell that he's going to sit on his dick and wait for you to come see him or make a trip to see you. Phone sex and dirty pictures will only get you so far. That just lets him know you are always going to be the 'go to' girl, always waiting for him, always ready and willing when he can find some spare time from relieving his own stress of his tour overseas.

He already has trust issues, and if she's been hurt herself before, so will the woman. If she meets him while he's deployed she feels relatively secure about his fidelity, but by no means is he assured of her own. If he is stationed somewhere else like Korea or Europe, not on a FOB somewhere in a desert or mountain range, it's easy to fool themselves into thinking they are truly in love because they can talk on the phone all the time, skype, or cam fuck on a regular basis.

However, once he deploys for real, he won't be able to do this with any regularity. She's going to get lonely, and as soon as she turns to her friends, whether real life or online, he's going to get suspicious. If she is not available every time he can snatch 10 minutes to make a phone call or get online, he'll start to wonder. He will remember all the stories he's already heard, or experienced himself. Every little thing she does will raise a red flag in his mind, and even if she never actually cheats, she'll want to, and he'll know it. Remember, it only takes the suspicion of infidelity to destroy trust, not the actuality of the act itself.